more on gender based stereotypes

on average, many stereotypes are valid *observations* (as opposed to an accurate description of every data point).

for example, the average guy is physically stronger than the average girl. where that becomes a dangerous statement is when that difference is valued to the point where, women (or men of smaller stature) are put down for not being a physical behemoth.

i'm beginning to think that my issue with stereotypes is not that the stereotypes exist, but the way in which the stereotypes contribute to inequality of rights or lack of choice for an individual. for example, going back to the stereotype of men on average being physically stronger - hence they are valued for jobs like construction workers, carpenters...and are paid accordingly. conversely, in conservative environments, women are slotted into childcare or maid work. all of which i am ok with so far. my indignation comes with imagining the reception a caring guy would get, should he choose a childcare job. or a strong girl who tried to become a construction worker.

i know we're splitting hairs. and i'm not sure how much practical use these discussions have. but i really enjoy taking thoughts as far as i can

stereotypes

stereotypes annoy me.

one stereotype out there, is that queer people are more promiscuous because there is no worry about unwanted pregnancies. i wonder if believers of that stereotype, know about birth control pills and what the demographics are who use the pill? or condoms? who buys the most condoms? i live in a college town and lemme tell you, most queer kids here are too busy moping in their coffees about the coming out drama in their lives or getting all worked up around another tree-hugging cause, to do much sleeping around. even if they did (or if they were pretty gay party boys), there really isn't much selection here...the queer community is pretty friggin small.

though that stereotype does bring up a happy point. straight people having sex worry about pregnancies and STIs. gay men having sex worry about STIs. lesbians...well in comparison, lesbians have a lot less to worry about. hmm lesbians seem to be getting off pretty easy. score. i'm glad i'm one then. i wonder if there is a catch...