more on gender based stereotypes

on average, many stereotypes are valid *observations* (as opposed to an accurate description of every data point).

for example, the average guy is physically stronger than the average girl. where that becomes a dangerous statement is when that difference is valued to the point where, women (or men of smaller stature) are put down for not being a physical behemoth.

i'm beginning to think that my issue with stereotypes is not that the stereotypes exist, but the way in which the stereotypes contribute to inequality of rights or lack of choice for an individual. for example, going back to the stereotype of men on average being physically stronger - hence they are valued for jobs like construction workers, carpenters...and are paid accordingly. conversely, in conservative environments, women are slotted into childcare or maid work. all of which i am ok with so far. my indignation comes with imagining the reception a caring guy would get, should he choose a childcare job. or a strong girl who tried to become a construction worker.

i know we're splitting hairs. and i'm not sure how much practical use these discussions have. but i really enjoy taking thoughts as far as i can